How can an experience be both restrictive and freeing? How is it possible to go from countless choices to almost no choices and feel lighter than ever? A customer at my jewelry booth at the Chilmark Flea Market on Martha's Vineyard said to me in early August, "I need my therapist when I come to shop with you. There are so many choices, I start spiraling and can't focus." At first I laughed but then noticed her words were constantly...